Saying Goodbye: End of School Year Transition

As we approach the end of the school year, many students are thinking about transition. For children and teens, this end-of-year transition means more than a move to a new grade; it means saying goodbye. Saying frequent goodbyes can fatigue children and make them reluctant to welcome new friendships.

Whether your child is a "stayer" or a "leaver," it is important to talk with them about saying their goodbyes to ensure they can feel safe and connected to their communities.

R.A.F.T.

Reconciliation

Help your child forgive and be forgiven for any conflicts they’ve encountered in the last year. It is important to make relationship repairs to let go of any hurt they might be holding onto.

Affirmation

Help your child express to others that they care for and appreciate them. This may include talking, writing a letter, taking a picture together, giving a gift, or taking an outing together.

Farewell

If your child is a “leaver,” plan time for saying goodbye to people, but also to possessions and special places they are leaving behind.

Think Destination

If your child is a “leaver,” help them learn more about their new home, school, and neighborhood. Assist them in determining what goals they have for the next year and what they need to know or do to reach those goals.